Loving You

The hardest thing 

For me 

to do

Is letting go

And stop 

loving you 

 

Cause no matter

What we’re

Going through 

We should 

At Least 

Give it

One more try 

 

Sure we 

May of 

Said things 

That we 

might regret 

and I’m sure

In time 

it’s something 

that we both 

will forget 

 

But why

Are you

Giving up

On the love 

That we

Once shared

When you

Gave the 

Impression that 

You once cared

 

When the

Only thing

We have 

to do 

Is get together 

And talk 

It through

And I’m

Sure there’s

Something that 

We both 

can do

To make

it work 

This time 

 

Are you

Willing to

Take a

A chance 

Or do you

Want to end

Our sweet romance 

 

Or Should we 

gave it

One more try

So that

Neither of us 

Will have 

Have to

Say goodbye 

 

As I

Shed a

Lonesome tear

From my eye

As I 

Left you behind 

 

When the

Only thing

I want you 

to know

Is how much

I’ll always

Love you so

 

So Revoir my dearest friend

Until we may cross paths once again

 

And I’ll always cherish those moments that I spent with you

And when the time is right I’ll be here Waiting for you

 

Composed By:  Denis Michael O’Sullivan

Please Talk

Please Talk is Ireland’s student-focused and student-led mental health campaign to connect third level students to support services available in the college setting and to empower students to talk openly about their mental health and suicide prevention. Please Talk urges students to understand that talking is a sign of strength, not of weakness, and if you’re experiencing problems while at college, there are people there who you can talk to.

Please Talk promotes this message through a collaborative effort involving the various support services present in colleges up and down the country such as: chaplains, counsellors, student support officers, students’ unions, disability support services. Most importantly, it is students on the ground who can be most effective in bringing the Please Talk message to the college community by establishing Please Talk/ Mental Health Societies on campus, running engaging initiatives and events and encouraging others students to play their part. For more details go to www.pleasetalk.org

Some of the highlights this year include:

Chats for Change

Please Talk launched their 5th annual “Chats for Change” national mental health campaign on the 29th January 2018.

This campaign was to get Irish third level students talking about their mental health. It was in partnership with The Union of Students of Ireland (USI) and St. Patrick’s Mental Health Services.

There were 20,000 “Chats for Change” reusable cups and support cards distributed across college campuses nationwide to encourage the conversation about mental health. The aim of the campaign was to remind students that by having a cup of tea and asking someone if they are OK can have such a positive impact on a person’s mental health and well-being.  While also providing information and signposting to support services that are available on campus and off campus while reminding them that talking is a sign of strength.

 Mental Health Awards

Please Talk sponsored the Board of Irish College Societies (BICS) mental health award.  This is a great opportunity to acknowledge the amazing work that third-level students are achieving in creating awareness about mental health on campuses across Ireland. The awards night was held on the 13th April in the Radisson Blu Hotel in Little Island, Cork with over 400 attendees. The overall winners were the Dublin Institute of Technology’s Mental Health Society for their “Mind your Head” campaign who are pictured celebrating with their award.

 Mental Health Funding for Third-level Societies 

As Please Talk is a student led, student focused mental health movement who’s aim it is to empower students to open the conversation around mental health and challenge the stigma around mental health; what better way to encourage the students to get involved than to offer funding to run a campaign. This reinforces our theory of supporting the grassroots and empowering them to take control and run their own initiatives.  This is a popular initiative and the standard of the applications are growing each year with some amazing ideas and ways to engage the student population and remind them that talking is a sign of strength.

Some of this year’s successful applications included:

NUIG Malaysian Medical Society: A Beautiful Mind: Connecting Arts and Mental Health   

A Beautiful Mind: Connecting Arts and Mental Health was a one-day event that highlights the importance and usefulness of arts in expressing our mental health.

DIT Student’s’ Union

Be Sound Campaign was a 3-day long campaign from March 13th – 15th 2018 each day with a different theme. The core messaging was around the importance of talking, listening and supporting each other through our mental health difficulties.

Philosophy Society at NUI Galway: Couch Conversations

Couch Conversations was a bi-weekly campaign on campus, where students were provided with a comfortable and inviting space on campus to engage in conversation and dialogue with each other about mental health. There was a question tree that entails a number of comedic and thought-provoking questions that aimed to encourage students to laugh, and smile, but also to discuss tough question in relation to mental health; personal development and identity.

UCD youth mental health lab: Would you share your mental health story online?  

‘Would you share your mental health story online?’ panel discussion was held on the 12th April 2018 on University College Dublin campus to promote conversations about mental health among the university community and encourage students to seek help when it is needed.

Other events included:

Mental Health Presentation for Incoming Officers

USI invited Please Talk to talk about mental health and looking after yourself when dealing with case work for the incoming Student Union Welfare Officers. This talk took place in GMIT on the 14th June 2018.

Mental Health Campaign Workshop    

On the 10th July, Please Talk held a workshop in “How to run an effective Mental Health Campaign on Campus” in Dublin Institute of Technology.

This workshop was open to anyone on campus who had an interest in running a campaign. There was 16 people who attended. Their backgrounds varied from welfare officers, mental health society members to staff involved in running campaigns on campus. This was great for engagement and also widening the Please Talk networks within colleges.

Starting the Conversation Mental Health Presentation

On the 3rd September, Please Talk was invited down to Maynooth campus by the African Student’s Association of Ireland to present at their first-year orientation event. There were over 50 students present mainly from Maynooth and Dublin Colleges.

Mental Health Mondays  

This mental health initiative is a collaboration between GMIT Student Union, NUIG Student Union and Please Talk.

It kicked off on the 1st October 2018 continuing throughout semester 1. Mental Health Mondays is a series of Mondays which will discuss a mental health topic each week that affects students while in college. The students will be able to access the information through the Please Talk website, while all 3 partners will also run a social media campaign to increase the reach of the third level students across the 2 campuses. Settling into college, substance abuse, mental health well-being tips, positive body image, healthy relationships and the importance of talking to someone are some of the topics covered over the weeks. We also hope to run an exam stress campaign as student’s come closer to Semester one exams.

Lots going on with lots more great initiatives coming up in 2019. If you have any queries or wish to get involved.  Please email the National Please Talk office at info@pleasetalk.org or checkout www.pleasetalk.org for more details.

Éalú MU Showcase in aid of Shine – TONIGHT

Shine are delighted that four wonderful students from Maynooth University who are studying a Music and Entrepreneurship module, Éalú MU Showcase, have decided so support our charity with Éalú – The Power of Escape

The last show will take tonight, December 4th at 8:30pm in the Duke and Coachman, Maynooth.   It is a multi talented showcase topped off with a headline slot from an American folk/blues band The NewArkansans currently on a European tour.

There is no cover charge, but we encourage you to donate on the night. If you cannot make it tonight and have a few euro to spare, you can make a donate to Éalú’s GoFundMe page.

These are some of the wonderfully talented people, who will be sharing their creativity tonight:

Music from:
Tobias Barry
Eoin Callan
ELKIN
Maynooth Trad Society
Favor W-oboyo
Philip McCarthy and Grace Frankenstein Kiernan
Georgina Lombard-Vance
Shane Dunleavy and Ryan Fahey
Vincent Walsh